Thursday, August 28, 2008

Papa


He was the most considerate, loyal man I ever met. He was intelligent, well-read and always searching to learn more about anything that interested him. He was eloquent and thoughtful. He loved children, birds, music, words and I loved him dearly. He wouldn't sit for dinner until Mamie was seated. He cut pizza with a silver pie server. He put so much thought into speeches given just to his family. He had jewelry made for his beloved wife. As children he seized every opportunity to watch us play and reward us for even the most mundane things we did. He laughed with our friends. He made it a point to know our friends' names. He told us all about the birds in our neighbourhood. He had a wonderful laugh with beautiful crinkles around his eyes and I loved him dearly. He swam in the ocean and skated on the lake with us. He grew tomatoes and made an amazing potato salad. He washed dishes by hand every day wearing rubber gloves. He loved to hold little babies. And I love him dearly.

8 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Oh Dana. You beatt me to it and I am crying over your words. They say a lot.

Love,
Mum

9:25 PM  
Blogger Pen & Rix Place said...

And I love him dearly too.
We must talk about this.

DoD

10:14 PM  
Blogger EJ said...

So nice Dana. You said it so perfectly. And I love the picture!

10:22 PM  
Blogger Jen said...

Oh Dana- I am so sorry- Papas are the worst to lose.

2:50 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm sorry for the your loss. What a wonderful message you've written. How lucky to have had such a warm and loving person in your and and your children's life for so long.
It's hard to type because I'm waiting for the tears to clear.

Love JenButer

9:14 AM  
Blogger Andrew said...

That's really perfect, Dane. Thanks for spreading that love around, 'cause it's really the best way to keep awesome people like Papa alive in this world after they've left us to our own devices.

- Andrew

11:05 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Dana. Mom sent me the link to your blog, and halfway across the world, I read your tribute to Papa. It is so poignant, and so Papa! It is simple and beautiful and just right, and I don't know if there will be dry eye in the house if you choose to share it at the memorial service...but I really hope you do! It is perfectly Papa. I am so so upset that i can't come home for the service. I think dad may read something I wrote, but I feel like you've said it best! Much love and big hugs,
Alyssa

10:57 PM  
Blogger John and Sharon said...

Oh Dana, you've got me in tears. I'm so sorry your Papa's gone.

3:19 PM  

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